Skip to main content

Be ready for your child's future


My parents were a little unconventional. When our neighbours bought a new TV, they preferred to take us on vacation. On every trip to Delhi, my father brought back books for me. It was always something not-so-materialistic from society’s point of view. We hardly understood the difference as there was no other way for us. But when we took our big step into the real world, we realised the importance of - reading books over watching movies, vacations over the second TV in our home and investing on experiences over accumulating the bank balance. My parents prepared us to take charge of our lives. I feel, they did a remarkable job.

My parents were financially prepared too. They planned well to support our education. They saved and invested for both me and my brother. However, there were a few instances which acted as a learning lesson for them. Their planning had a few shortcomings. They were ready for College fees but never thought of money for coaching classes, which was a huge amount. It was not their fault, the world is fast changing and it’s nearly impossible to predict the cost of education back in the 90s. They learnt. When my brother told them he wanted to study abroad, they did all their homework and planned to every single expense. They had no hiccups financing my brother’s education in the US. These days competition is tougher as compared to what it was a decade ago. Children need to be prepared to face the challenges and so does parents. No wonder, many parents start planning the moment a child is born. It has become a modern day necessity.

When I look at parents of our generation, I feel that most of them have embraced the off-beaten path. They are willing to spend money on activities which were once considered extravagant or non-relevant. Now, a dance class is as important as Maths tuition for a child’s development. However, there is still a long way to go for parents, as children these days are more aware and decisive. Watch this interesting #DoYourHomeWork campaign video, where parents were asked to draw what profession their children would choose, and children were asked simultaneously to draw what they want to be. You will be surprised to see the difference.

All this got me thinking - how difficult it is for parents these days? They need to be supportive on all fronts. They have to be there for their children - physically, emotionally and financially. So, to all the young parents out there - are your prepared? Have you done your homework?

Taking a cue from aspirations of these young kids, ask your child about his dreams and start investing for it. Don’t leave any details. Use The Homework App - an app which calculates how much money parents would need to fund their child’s dream. Not only this app helps in calculating the fees of your child’s education, it highlights the other expenses, based on your child’s requirement. So, if your child wants to pursue MS from Stanford, this app helps you calculate the living expenses along with tuition fees. I wish, my parents had this app while planning for my brother’s education.

Be future ready to give concrete shape to your child’s dream. Be ready so you can enjoy and be a part of his golden years, and not worry about money. Click and take a step forward in this direction.

Comments

  1. Your parents did the best thing Saru. As a parent, and in times when technology has invaded our lives, I often find it tough to keep them away from too much of it. They ought to make better choices in life.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Making the right choices at the right time helps in the long run. Thanks for reading, Sunaina.

      Delete
  2. Its hard to keep ourselves away from these gadgets which have covered us almost from all sides. But inculcating those habits like reading books and nature trips are a good savoiur..

    ReplyDelete
  3. You are lucky :) Kids these days hold a laptop in one hand and a cell phone in the other, just after they are born. Not exaggerating! :P :/

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I know. It's sad though. I wish they go out and interact with other kids rather than sitting at home.

      Delete
  4. What a wonderful app! The Homework app :) What we did for our children was keep aside enough money for the best education they could desire. And they did - one of my daughters wanted to go to New York - and we were able to send her because of good planning. Another is doing a Phd at Cambridge University! Think ahead!! Excellent blog post Saru.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. WOW, your kids are really intelligent. You must be a proud mom.

      Delete
  5. That is very interesting as it helps in both planning and securing money for the kids future..will sure try it out..

    ReplyDelete
  6. One has to plan in tandem with fast changing times!

    ReplyDelete
  7. A very insightful post that got me thinking real hard! We will soon be faced with this as parents trying to shape our child's future. The app seems really a great tool towards that goal.

    Also your parents were just amazing. :)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You need that. Start planning for Maya's future. I agree, I am blessed with sensible parents.

      Delete
  8. Yes its very important to plan out well to be able to meet the aspirations of children while keeping pace with inflation.

    ReplyDelete

Post a Comment

Bricks, brickbats, applause - say it in comments!

Popular posts from this blog

Being Human

Under the roof of winter, Latches of my door open without making a sound. It's cold out there, Someone lost his ground. My soul shivers, Not that I'm cold. Someone from my land, Sleeps under the bridge while dreaming of gold. How can I... tuck myself in the quilt? When the winter storm is blowing, Hopes they have built. I have to get up, Do something... Before I start questioning who am I? And, they start saying...'Humanity dies.' Let's work out something, Take a resolution. Walk across all kinds of bridges, And, just be human... From centuries people are migrating for work or for better opportunities. But, not everyone has a smooth sailing...some live under miserable conditions. Most heart wrenching fact is nobody helps them, not even people from their own countries. I know, everybody is busy chasing the bigger purpose of life. But don't you think we should help people in need? Let's try to be better human being...

I Am Not Alone

Last year blessed me, He walked silently into my life. It was Love, That took me in its stride. One evening we walked holding hands, Then, I told him what I felt in heart. He said we were one soul, Who were living in parts. To bring the parts together, We fought with the world and tied the knot. Being one soul, Gave life a whole new spot. Chirping birds, floating clouds, Nature conspired for us. Always swimming against the tide, Life was in an adrenaline rush. This year cursed me, He walked silently out of my life. It was Death, That took him in its stride.       Yesterday his soul was saying, Fearing memories will fade, he can’t move on. He will stay and admire me, Standing always by my side from dusk to dawn. Image Source - Here

Rewind - September 2023

 I wrote the following in September. Sometimes, I feel I will forget the art of writing couplets because I am not writing at all this year. I strongly believe you have to practice to hone your craft. And I am not doing that. Perhaps I schedule a time to write a poem. Or I need better time management skills. Date Published 09/05/2023 मुझे उसके जाने का इतना अफ़सोस नहीं हुआ  जितना इस बात का कि इतने सालों तक उसे रहने ही क्यों दिया  Love, Saru